Lots of amazing parents and their even more amazing children have been kind enough to share their experiences of childhood cancer with us, to help raise awareness of the need for more dedicated research. We affectionately call all those who share their story with us ‘a friend of Rosie’, the brave little girl who inspired us and our continued fight for children with cancer.
Cheryl, mum to outstanding Oscar, who recently rang the End of Treatment Bell marking the close of a life-changing journey for the whole family, shares their story of Oscar’s battle with cancer:
“Oscar was born in June 2014. He was a much longed for baby, our very own miracle boy. Oscar was a normal healthy happy little toddler. So in June 2017, we were shocked beyond belief to receive the worst news any parent could ever be given. Our darling boy had cancer. Oscar was diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma of the right temporal fossa. Our world was completely shattered.
“Within days of diagnosis, Oscar had his central line fitted and was admitted to hospital to receive round one of 13 sessions of chemotherapy. On 17th November, it was decided that surgery to remove the mass was an option. So on 28th November, Oscar’s mass was successfully removed, but due to inadequate healthy tissue margins, Oscar would still need proton therapy treatment to hopefully reduce the risk of relapse.
“So in February 2018 we flew out to Germany to start proton therapy treatment. We lived in Germany for seven weeks while Oscar received 28 sessions of proton therapy, while under general anaesthetic, 5 days each week. This was Oscar’s final course of treatment and on our return to the UK, he finally got to ring the End of Treatment bell.
“As a family we have been to hell and back, but Oscar in true ‘superhero style’, has shown tremendous courage throughout and has never complained. He has struggled with terrible sickness, joint pain and fatigue, but this hasn’t stopped him from always having the biggest smile on his face and filling the room with his infectious laugh. It’s Oscar who has been our ‘rock’ and got us through the darkest of days when it should have been the other way around. Without his positivity and tenacity, as cancer parents, we would have crumbled long before now. Oscar’s zest for life has certainly been our motivation to pick ourselves up and get out of bed each day and say…WE CAN DO THIS! Oscar is doing really well now and life is slowly returning to some kind of normal. We know we are one of the lucky ones.”
A huge thank you to Cheryl and Oscar for allowing us to share your story and help raise more awareness. We must find gentler and more effective treatments for these little warriors. Keep smiling that gorgeous smile Oscar – you did it! x